The atmosphere in the room was absolutely giddy. And I lost count of the number of moms who laughed as they insisted, "I'm telling them that I'm doing this for my kids."
Which is exactly why I did it. I swear.
I have to say that I am struck by this photo. Can you tell how happy I was right at that moment? Seriously, meeting Grover turned me into a giggling groupie.
I need to tell you all about two other amazing folks I met when I was in San Francisco. And neither had anything to do with blogging or the conference.
I arrived in SF on Wednesday evening. I didn't have my first meeting (an orientation for BlogHer speakers) until 3pm on Thursday, so I spent the earlier part of that day playing tourist.
On my walk back from North Beach to the hotel, my eye was caught by a store with some funky looking clothes and purses in the window. I am really not much of a shopper but there was something about this place that just spoke to me. Inside, I met Megan the designer, who was working away at her table as I browsed.
I tried on a gorgeous jacket (which looked great on me. The online photo doesn't do it justice. And the in store price was cheaper, too) and decided to justify it as a birthday present to myself (August 4th is not that far away...).
Martha and I chatted away as I browsed. Now, I have no idea how this came up but at some point she mentioned menopause. I told her that I had gone through menopause at 38, due to chemotherapy (not the kind of thing I generally tell a complete stranger).
Then Martha told me that she has had Stage 4 thyroid cancer that she has been living and working with for many years (I not absolutely certain about the thyroid or the number of years. I was just so stunned by this revelation).
I told her that I am Stage 4, too.
We hugged. And we looked at each other, a little in awe.
You wouldn't guess that either of us had cancer. We both look pretty damn healthy. Better than healthy.
I floated out of the store, so buoyed was I from this encounter.
And I will always think of Martha, hope and inspiration when I wear my beautiful jacket.
I'll tell you about another amazing encounter tomorrow.
7 comments:
i loved your panel - i can't put a finger on it, but in some ways it was a high point of the conference for me.
i don't have cancer, i've not been raped, i haven't been to jail - but somehow, the panel got to the core for me - that blogging is about community. period.
i didn't realize that you were still in chemo - good luck to you.
Laurie, the picture is great! I'd really like to see a better picture of you in your blog's sidebar. The one there now doesn't do you justice. You look fabulous!
is this on flickr? cause i wanna 'fave' it! fabulous. simply fabulous indeedo.
I really enjoyed meeting you and talking about how the hard parts of our lives do not have to define us.
Buying the jacket was a very good idea - pending birthday or no, I think people should buy things when they make them feel good.
You look fantastic! Super healthy and happy. Dorothy showed me a video of Grover talking to Little and I squealed with happiness. I love Grover!!!!
sweet martha. yes, i have those encounters too... whenever i manage to escape my house. isn't that wonderful and sweet? like an unexpected super sweet cherry? or strawberry? or grape? when there not quite in season! savory!
:)
sweet martha. yes, i have those encounters too... whenever i manage to escape my house. isn't that wonderful and sweet? like an unexpected super sweet cherry? or strawberry? or grape? when there not quite in season! savory!
:)
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