tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post4287746145766522357..comments2024-03-20T03:37:35.596-04:00Comments on not just about cancer: i've been a bad friendlauriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14533311678025418958noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-51932985616940645102012-06-13T18:40:40.993-04:002012-06-13T18:40:40.993-04:00i've just had my left boob and 11 nodes out an...i've just had my left boob and 11 nodes out and feel like a car wreck. i can't do the going out thing yet and know how you feel about missing things and peopleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-63611733931088769862012-04-20T18:34:59.396-04:002012-04-20T18:34:59.396-04:00Orit: xoxoxoOrit: xoxoxolauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14533311678025418958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-60281608328872143052012-04-13T14:22:59.604-04:002012-04-13T14:22:59.604-04:00I cried when I read this, we mourn our old giving ...I cried when I read this, we mourn our old giving loving selves, but it's important to remember that everyone is just so happy that we're still here, in whatever form we can muster on a particular day.oritnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-6613745919439688922012-04-12T14:32:10.967-04:002012-04-12T14:32:10.967-04:00thanks, Ken.thanks, Ken.lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14533311678025418958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-7192078854351600502012-04-11T12:27:36.916-04:002012-04-11T12:27:36.916-04:00I'm not sure I know what it means to be a good...I'm not sure I know what it means to be a good friend. Friendship doesn't come with a manual. My relationships with people are as diverse as the people I know. All I can say is you've been a great friend over the years Laurie and I look forward to our friendship growing as we do.Ken Craftnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-69798211683711195462012-04-11T11:26:24.123-04:002012-04-11T11:26:24.123-04:00wow. thanks you guys. you have each said exactly w...wow. thanks you guys. you have each said exactly what i needed to hear.lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14533311678025418958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-51051774992458075202012-04-11T07:14:22.586-04:002012-04-11T07:14:22.586-04:00I have a big long list of people to whom I owe a T...I have a big long list of people to whom I owe a Thank You note, but I don't see myself sitting and getting it done anytime soon. I am not sure why. Like your post on friends who are OK with kids coming over in PJ's for dinner, the real friends do not expect a return on their generosity. Maybe we should just be thankful for what we have been given and let the guilt go. I am sure none of the friends wanted us to have guilt.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16642947276308505560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-48322596721684638812012-04-10T16:55:20.494-04:002012-04-10T16:55:20.494-04:00You're not alone, for sure.You're not alone, for sure.Throws Like A Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11812199436638947698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20882588.post-33166478950213863382012-04-10T15:24:48.042-04:002012-04-10T15:24:48.042-04:00hmmm, you're pretty much describing the contem...hmmm, you're pretty much describing the contemporary/distracted/busy non-cancer-having-person, seems to me. perhaps you were simply embracing a sense of "normalcy". please don't be so hard on yourself. but if making up for this regret is on your plate, you'll make it right. xojacquelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15300259556688308704noreply@blogger.com